How to believe in yourself!

Hi.

So before i get stated i will give you a run down of what this blog is about. Each post i will pick something to talk about. This post i will be talking about the thing were all told to do. But do we actually know how?

BELIEVE IN YOURSELF

Isn’t what we all say. But how do we do it. Well in this post i’ll be showing you how, how to believe in yourself. It’s quite simple. PRACTICE another of those words that people use and we don’t even know how to do it. But that’s for another post. Anyway back to the matter in hand. Here are some ways you could improve yourself esteem. Step out of your comfort zone. Now how do you do that i hear you ask. Well pick a fear. E.g. Singing in public. Well let’s use that as an example.

First pick a song and learn maybe the first sentence or paragraph and try singing it in your room maybe with headphones. Then when you a bit more confident. Try humming  the song in school (not in lessons you might get in trouble) but in break.

Then with your friend/s start transforming the humming into words if your chosen sentence is E.g. I am not a stranger to the dark Hide away, they say. (Greatest Showman THIS IS ME) Start saying the words as you would in a conversation (but tell your friend/s that your doing this or it would be a bit weird) Then when you get back home you can try singing the words as loud as you fell like it.

You could get a speaker and blast the volume as far as you dare (don’t hurt your ears) and hopefully you can sing along with it and blast your volume to. When you feel comfortable you can try turning the volume down and focus of the quality (which notes you can and can’t reach)  After that you can try putting you self out there by singing to your family or try to get a singing teacher and it’s OK if they don’t agree with it JUST PUT YOURSELF OUT THERE.

Then try singing at break with your friend/s but pick a song they might know and then you COULD have you and your friend/s could start singing. Along the way you might  go “AGGGGG I CAN’T SING” but negative talk holds you back and it won’t help you. So stick to the habit and try saying (as hard as it might be) “I CAN DO THIS” and try smiling when you singing.

Now here is another of those words TRUST YOURSELF. That’s for another post but do.
DO TRUST YOURSELF.

This has been CharlieChats